Iflegi yaseAutistan, ithwalwe ngumntwana one-autistic eBrussels (Usuku lwehlabathi lokwazisa ngoluphazamiseko 2018)

(ifoto Cinzia Agoni)

Inkcazo ekhawulezayo :

1. eAutistan Ingaba i “ihlabathi le-autistic” : oku kuchaza, Isishwankathelo, yonke into ebonisa i-autism kunye nabantu abane-autistic.
2. Umbutho weDiplomatic of Autistan inenjongo ephambili ye’bazise abasemagunyeni amazwe, ukuze baziqonde ngcono iimfuno kunye nobunzima babantu abane-autistic, ngenjongo yokuba a “Ukuqwalaselwa okuchanekileyo kwe-Autism kuyo yonke indawo” ukuvumela a “Ukufikeleleka kwabantu abane-Autistic Basesichengeni seeMeko zokuKhubaza“, ukuze kuncitshiswe i “Uhlaselo lwentlalo (luvo, yengqondo okanye enye)”.
Umbutho wethu u “ngaphandle kwelizwe”, akenzi nto “ukuphazamiseka kwangaphandle”, inika igalelo elihambelanayo enkosi kwindlela ebanzi kakhulu, ezahlukeneyo, ezahlukeneyo, evumela uthelekiso kunye nemiboniso eluncedo kakhulu ekuphuculeni imigaqo-nkqubo yoluntu.
3. Abantu abaneAutism abasokoli “ngoluphazamiseko” : bayasokola iziphumo yokungabikho kweNgqwalaselo eLungileyo ye-Autism kuyo yonke indawo, kwaye ke ngoko ukungabikho kwemigaqo-nkqubo yoluntu kunye nemilinganiselo evumela ukufikeleleka ngenxa yokunciphisa olu hlaselo lwangaphandle.
4. Ngalo nto, kubalulekile ukuba uqale ngokuyiqonda loo nto “uphazamiseko” (nto leyo engumahluko wobuntu oneempawu ezininzi) yinto eyahlukileyo kwi “iingxaki ze-autism” (eziingxaki kuphela, injongo okanye ingqiqo).
5. Abantu abaneAutism kufuneka bakwazi “ukufunda non-autism” ukuphila ngokuziqhelanisa nayo, KODWA ngaphandle kokuthobela oko kukuthi ngaphandle “uxanduva lokungabi yi-autistic”, kuba kufuneka sigcine iimpawu ezithile kwi-autism, kwaye kufuneka siphephe iimpazamo ezininzi neziyingozi kunye nemigibe yentlalo, ngakumbi oko kubandakanya ukudala ukuzithemba “umgwebo onokwenzeka ngabasemzini”, efuna uhlobo oluthile “ubuzwilakhe bomfanekiso wentlalo” unyanzelekile ukuba “iiglasi” (into engekho ngqiqweni, phezulu, kwaye inetyhefu ngakumbi kubantu abane-autism).
6. Kunyanzelekile ukuba abantu abane-autistic bangathintelwa kwiminqweno yabo okanye kumashishini (ngaphandle kwemigaqo emincinci yokuziphatha kakuhle), ukuba bona abavezwanga kwizithintelo, kukhuseleko olugqithisileyo okanye ukuvinjwa inkululeko ngenxa ye-autism yabo.
Kanjalo, akulunganga kodwa ngaphezu kwayo yonke into ithintela naluphi na uphuhliso oluhle.
Uphuhliso oluhle lwabantu abane-autistic lunokwenzeka kuphela ukuba banokulandela “indlela yakho yobomi”, nto leyo ngokucacileyo ayiqhelekanga, kwaye iyakuthandwa ngu inkitha engenamda yamathuba, yokuzikhethela, yamathuba, yamava, ukuthandana, yeziganeko, uhambo njl.., kwaye hayi ngenye indlela : Uthintelo kunye nobubhanxa bobomi nangakumbi kwaye buthintelwe ngakumbi kunobo babantu abaninzi abangengoma-autistic (oko kakhulu “umgangatho kunye nerobhothi”).
Ngalo nto, kunyanzelekile kwaye kubalulekile ukuba ABAZALI babantu abane-autistic babe “ufundiswe ngoluphazamiseko”.
7. Inkululeko kunye nokulinga ngoko ke kubalulekile, kunye nokuqonda le migaqo (phakathi kwezinye ezininzi esinokuthi sizichaze kwaye sibonise ngokweenkcukacha) kubalulekile ukuba uluntu lukwazi ukwenza ubomi obungcono kubantu abane-autistic : ngokukhululekileyo, ngcono, kuzaliseke ngakumbi, kunye nenqanaba elifanayo lamathuba kunye namathuba njengabantu abangenayo i-autistic, oko kukuthi a “ubomi bokwenyani”, ufanelekile kwaye wonwabile.
8. Oku kunokwenzeka ukuba abantu abane-autistic abakwazi ukuchaza ezi zinto waphulaphula ngenyameko, kwaye ukuba abasemagunyeni benze iinzame kwaye baqonda ukuba uhlengahlengiso oluyimfuneko aluxhaphazi : zezi izilungiso eziluncedo kuluntu luphela.
Zama ukutsala umdla, ezi zinto uzicacise ngokuqinisekileyo ngemizekelo nobungqina “kubomi benene” : oku kuphela kwenjongo yombutho wethu.